Face.Everything.And.Rise

Face.Everything.And.Rise! Everyone comes across a obstacle that can hold them back from the other side in life. Thinking back to all the things you could have done, does it scare you that life's beauty is a flight or train ride away? Personally, after three kids and a husband life should have been seen already. Although, The topic of fear is pretty fierce and should something beautiful be behind the door that you stand in front of, that might trigger its defense system to full blast. Napoleon Hill states that the only true fear is fear itself! I don't think that there could be a truer statement in reference to this subject. Do you agree? There is so much opportunity in this world but we are infected by fear and what if's. Could you imagine if  Thomas Edison gave up and was afraid to ignore the negative voices after sleepless nights and unlimited attempts for making the light bulb work?  What would 2015 look like? I'd imagine other than sun and moon light, our world would be a pretty dark place. That's just my opinion, but you get the picture. He raised over the nonsense of others words and took his last good swing  is known for all over the nation. So fear was pushed to side and for the benefits to our lives for those to come!

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"Be courageous! Whatever setbacks America  has encountered, it has always emerged as a stronger and more prosperous nation...."

"Be brave as your fathers before you. Have faith and go forward"  

Thomas Alva Edison"    

It is what it Is

I'm at work right now and thinking about my kids and their future. My little team WILL NOT have the same life I did!! Some day's, I could truly feel like yanking out my hair because they have so many questions that I don't know the answer to! SMH!! I never knew that I would be afraid to answer toddlers questions until I had toddlers of my own.  I can not be the only one's who feel like this ...... right? In the past 6 months I've raised my title of being a woman of many hats. Aside from school, parenting, marketing and work I added independent sales to my lifestyle.  I never thought my "nice" skin could form bags! (Is that how Steve Jobs or Bill Gates got where they are?) I thank God for the future that my kids push me toward, because of them and the people people that I choose to be around ... I know now that The Law of Attraction is Real . We read and hear all the time that you have to get rid of the negativity in your life to bring in the positive!! Lol... Let me not kid you... I'm definitely still a work in progress. Although each day I can proudly say I'm a whole lot better than I was yesterday! 

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Pay the Trolls No Mind

What is a troll and how can we avoid them?  No matter what you do in life you will one day come across a troll. Trolls have the reputation of being cartoons or some mythical creatures.. but NO❗️They are real just disguised as people.  A troll is meant to get you away from your goal. This means that they can come in many WAYS, SHAPES or FORMS‼️ This means you have to sharpen your spidey senses.. Trolls might look like your family, friends or co-workers. The bad thing about trolls is ....they are unaware of the fact they are one. So we must be mindful of it...categorize them and keep with your mission. Andrew Carnegie says" The worst thing that happens to you can be the best thing that happened to you if you don't let it get the best of you" With this being said.. Trolls just like crime, death and other painful things go on in life but it's all how you handle it. Think  about the "WHY" you have and the troll will become irrelevant and trivial.

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What Does The Word B.E.A.U.T.Y Mean?

B.E.A.U.T.Y is given so many names. So what is the proper way to address it? Does it consist of  the outer appearance or come from inside of a person? When the word  "beauty" pops in your head, what is the first thing that comes to mind? Some think that beauty means having long straight, silky, hair and light skin. In today's society, the media tells us and our children what "beauty" is supposed to look like.  Only issue with this is, many of these women even some men in commercials, movies and television shows have billions to afford a personal coach. To add to the trickery, many are paid actors! Not sure if your seeing the biggest issue yet.. but the teens down are not able to recognize the fact that these people are not REAL! Many make their biggest goals to look good everyday. Media will not show you that the women and men are flooded with insecurity and this is what they substitute for love.  Of course this is just my opinion but I don't think that many would argue about this. Beauty definitely plays a part with the visual portion of one's self, but is it just that?  Beingavailable.. everyone goes through things but not everyone is good at admitting or asking for help. Educating the community with things you've learned to make that environment a better place.Always show love for the ones who need you the most, Understanding a persons situation and showing them empathy, napoleon hill say's that its easier to judge because thinking is too hard. Think clearly when your under stress or in pain; your mountains can be a testimony for others. Finally at the bottom of the list is your visual anatomy.. you may not think that you are beautiful but to your child, parent, spouse or just someone made a difference for  you may look like royalty.  Everyone is different so, obviously we will all have different views, but what does beauty mean to you?

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The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives the passion that she shows. The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years.

Audrey Hepburn

When I Feel Low

When I'm feeling low end emotions, what do I want to say to myself?  Everyone has the same 24 hours in their days but we all do different tasks. A lot of the times we encounter things that don't fit our fancy. Then there is times that our emotions peak to the top of our happy charts! A question we never have is "why do I feel this? " When this happens, what questions do I ask myself?  Where did it come from? There has been an old saying that you should never make permanent decisions when your having a temporary emotion.  Women tend to go through emotions without understanding the reason why behind it. This is frustrating to other people, but we drive ourselves crazy even more! I been reading up on #emotional #intelligence and to make it through life #successfully is a #top #necessity. If we have a better certainty of our peers and their emotions as well as our own.. We would be able to understand ourselves  better to cope and blend well with others. If we see that someone is late for work.. talking about how great our day is going  probably isn't something we should rant about! Should we have a anxious type of day.. kicking and screaming on the floor will probably get us arrested. Right? Obviously this is just an opinion, but this idea is probably something we should stay away from.  When your feeling angry, recognize it, understand why your feeling it, label it for any future encounters, express your feeling , whether it be with someone or to ourselves and last is regulate which is using strategies to handle all the emotions that happen to us daily.  R.U.L.E.R is something that discussed in a school parent teacher advisory meeting.  Using this concept is something that benefits the future.. Do you agree?

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What is Your Greatest Tool❓

The Greatest Tool in life is our Positive Mental Attitude. In Napoleon Hill's "Keys To Success", He says "the worst thing that has happened to you could be the best thing that happened to you if your using PMA". There are times in the past that control how the future looks. We could let pain lift us up or tear our walls down. I feel like we should choose life❣So I want to take things I learned and share them with you. I'm real big on subconscious acts. Training our minds to gain a positive mental attitude helps you see the bright side on everything. This brings so many questions that could spark up. Napoleon believed the only person able to Anger or aggravate your mental status is you. Our future is bright but we have to get our mindsets in a status that no one can enter any portion of ourselves that have been locked off. Their energy or words will have no power.  It's going to take time and effort but carrying past hurts with us has the ability to help us in our future. If you were mentally or physically abused in any way, you can channel this energy to build someone up. This could help someone feel alive with your words and share a light that beams into them. Giving them strength to do the same for someone else. When we keep the remembrance of things from our past, this makes us smarter for the future.  Hopefully we learned enough that it gives us wisdom for future encounters. Having a positive mental attitude does not happen over night but with time it could be a game changer for your mental, social and financial life.  Napoleon Hill believes that a positive mental attitude molds the way for your life.

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What Can Your Fear Do For You?

For the longest time... Fear has been given the reputation of a horrific thing. We're scared of almost everything because of what mommy told us or that late night horror we watched right before bed. Where scared of sharks as though they're walking down the streets. A little bananas right? I know it's a little cliche but the saying about "the only thing to fear is fear itself" is beyond true. In Gavins book "The Gift of Fear"... He talks about listening to the fear inside of you because it can save your life. Listening to your intuition is something that we ignore far to often because we don't want to come off as being mean or snobby. Meanwhile.. If we go with that guy or girl.. Ignoring that feeling about them that we couldn't shake may cost us or reputation or even our life. The majority of the time our intuition or gut feeling is correct and should we share somethings with a person we thought was "trustworthy" or go somewhere with someone we had faith in, the words IF we are lucky end up being "I knew I shouldn't have trusted her/him. "OMG.. How did I miss that?" Am I ringing any bells here? "The Gift Of Fear" changed my views of everyday interaction and its one of my smarter choices in reading. (Glad I  Did)

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You have the gift of a brilliant internal guardian that stands ready to warn you of hazards and guide you through risky situations.

Gavin de Becker, The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence